Showing posts with label family letter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family letter. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Family Letter for March 2011

I sure love turning to a brand new page on the calendar. It's so clean and blank. Then, I pull down the last month to write this letter and I am just amazed at what has filled it up. I could say that I don't know where the month has gone, but I am looking right at it. It has gone to babysitting, and Dance lessons, and Dentist appointments, and Birthday parties, and Spring Break. But that is just what is written down. I didn't even make it over to the computer to write down the everyday stuff this month. So, I will just see what I can remember. It's sure a great thing that we have this every month, because past that I don't think I would remember anything at all.
Our Thayne is such a happy, fun kid. I think I write that every month. He brings so much laughter into our days. He loves to repeat whatever he hears, just in one-word phrases. He really has loved how the weather is warming up and will play outside with Olivia until his fingers and cheeks turn red. Then, he cries when he has to come in. He likes to tell the kitties, “no,no” and hit anything and everything with a bat, luckily Olivia and the cats are too fast, so he settles for every ball he can find and the fence posts.
Olivia is still so sugar and spice with us. Without her our life would be pretty bland I am sure. She told Martin this month that she wishes she had a remote to change to a different Mom and Dad when she wants to. All she would tell him is that she would change to parents that would never tell her to go to bed. She seems to have a on and off switch to her bad moments, but we have no idea where it is or what it even looks like. I have felt like she is growing out of this a little more each week, and she is turning into the best helper I could ask for.
Abby is dancing through March and all of Spring. They had a make-up dance lesson for one that they missed in February, that made for three in the month instead of two. As we were driving home from dance on the last lesson, Abby said, “Mom, when are we going to have our make-up class?” I said, “You had it last week.” She was very confused and quiet, then she said, “So, did we just forget to put make-up on me that day?” She was very disappointed to find out that it just meant an extra lesson, not a make-up party :).
Matt is a little harder to write about. Not every thought that runs through his head gets voiced to us. He really thinks about every little thing and how it will affect him. He is so very responsible and tries very hard to do the “right” thing. We had a FHE lesson on The Plan of Salvation and he wanted to put up the poster where he gets dressed every morning so he can look at it. He can usually be found reading, playing legos, or riding his bike. He loves to play on the computer or the Xbox, but is so good at making up games and plans and fun clubs that he gets dragged away by Olivia, Thayne, and Abby pretty often.
I am thinking that this letter is turning a tad long, but I haven't even written about Spring Break yet. Martin and the kids had separate vacation weeks again this year. So we decided to take Matt and Abby out of school for Martin's break. Martin planned an awesome trip for us again. It was our trip of Indian Ruins with a few slot canyons thrown in. We camped for a week and hiked every day. We started out at Dead Horse Point State Park and hiked in Canyonlands National Park to two different Indian Ruin spots. On Sunday we went to church with the ward in Moab, Utah. The next three nights we camped out on Cedar Mesa and hiked down to a really unique place called The Perfect Kiva. It is a large circle dug in the ground and then covered over with timbers and mud. You have to climb down a stick ladder to get into it. The Kiva's were usually used for ceremonies and very special gatherings. This was my favorite place that we went. We also visited a huge clan home called Moonhouse. It had over 40 rooms strung along a canyon. It is so impressive to see the construction that is so primitive, but has stood for hundreds of years. It's also cool to talk with the kids about how the Indians must have lived. They loved to play Indian kids and Matt would always defend the homes from attackers. We made grass and yucca dolls and took lots of pictures. We ended our trip with a few nights at Goblin Valley State Park. They had showers!! It was also a very crowded campground, and we are getting so used to not having neighbors. So we stayed out and about most of our days. We hiked into some slot canyons around there and spent one evening playing tag in Goblin Valley. The day we headed home was Thayne's 2nd birthday. Martin had one more hike planned, but he got out-voted by the rest of us who were just ready to be home. For the week, we had already hiked over 30 miles. He wasn't too disappointed, he can always save it for the next trip.
We got home ready to unpack and relax. It was not to be, two birds had broken into our house. They came in through the chimney. They made a mess of every flat surface in our whole house. One had died, but the other we had to chase out the front door. Before we could wash all the red-sand stained clothes and blankets from the trip, we pulled off all the bedspreads to wash first. What a welcome home!
I almost started to write about Conference...but, I will save that for next month. We sure love you all, hope your Spring is Great! Love, The Pope's

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Family Letter for January and February 2011

I have started going to the computer and typing up some of the little moments of the day. It has made me realize a few things. #1 I wish I would have started this sooner. #2 Funny things happen everyday. #3 How much learning and changing takes place each day.
Here are a few of our moments from January and February:
Olivia says she does not want to be a mom as she watches me change diapers, and put Thayne down for a nap. Then, a little bit later she tells me she will have lots of kids so they can do the jobs. I asked, “Like what?” She tells me they can do the laundry and the dishes and vacuum every day. So, I said, “what are you going to do if they do all that?” She responds, “I will sit on my couch and watch Mommy and Daddy movies.” Ahhh, the life of a mom, I guess she doesn't know about the bon-bon part yet. :)
Abby started Piano Lessons, for her first week of practicing, she would stand up and announce each piece like a recital. Now she sits and takes a huge, deep breath, then she sits up real tall, another big breath, and dramatically exhales as she places her hands on the keys. Then, she plinks out her songs and before each new time through repeats the whole process again. It is quite the production, and very fun to watch.
Thayne and Olivia are very good friends, especially the more that Thayne can do and play. So, a few weeks ago, Olivia says to Thayne, “Thayne you are so CLEVER.” I overhear her, and say, “What does clever mean?” Olivia answers, “It means he is so funny and good, and fancy.”
During lunch one day we had to come up with some new definitions that I hope you can add to your Dictionary. Girl Cheese is a regular grilled cheese sandwich, but what is Boy Cheese? A Boy Cheese sandwich is when you add meat. I hope that clarifies some things :)
My top---okay, maybe bottom moment of the month came when Olivia and I were getting into the car after we came out of the grocery store. I was waiting for her to buckle up her car-seat and she said (in the very sweetest voice), “I am going to be a good mom, huh?...” I thought, “What a nice moment,” and said, “yes, you are going to be a great mom.” She continued in her super sweet tone, “...not like you.” ??????? I actually laughed out loud and almost yelled at the same time. So, what makes a bad mom? According to the four year old (who is an expert at these things), you can't put your kids in time-out so many times in a day. Actually, no time-outs at all. I guess I am resigned to be a bad mom, it's okay, I am getting used to it. Isn't that a fact of life, if your kids think you are too mean and too strict---you must be on the right track.
As far as moments go, these last two months sure went too fast. We also had some fun events, one being basketball for Matt. Their season was fairly short and it involved practices two nights a week, and games on Saturdays. This was his first year playing and he went from first practice and really learning how to dribble, to the last few games really showing us some serious defensive skills and shooting that had improved nearly 100%. His team was so fun to watch as they played with so much heart. They lost every game, but I was always surprised because they would play so hard the whole game and they seemed to be right up there with the other team, but they would hardly ever shoot. Too bad the score board doesn't always reflect heart and hard work. I really appreciate the coaches and everyone who puts so much into the city/league sports. It's great how much Matt learned in that short season and how it shows in his confidence now too.
Martin and Matt also took a snowboarding day together. They just go up to Pebble Creek in Inkom, Idaho. It is a small resort, but they had a really good day there and Matt picked right up where he left off last year. He found that really cool and it made for a fun time for Martin too.
I think I had better wrap this up, because I promised myself I would get this done early this month. Lots of Love from the Pope's!